“Do I need an elopement bouquet?”… Amy + Luke said “I DO!” to each other and flowers!

Adorable Amy and Luke came all the way from the UK for a romantic, private elopement in Palm Springs. Just the two of them. Swoon!! Their elopement was also my last wedding in Palm Springs, before moving (back) to Los Angeles... Venice Beach, to be exact! 

bride and groom standing by a pool in california. groom wearing deep red suit bride holding a colorful red, burgundy elopment bouquet

And I couldn't have asked for a sweeter, more chill couple to mark the end of my 6-year journey doing wedding florals in the desert. (Little did they know or expect that it would be a sweltering 96°F on their wedding day...in February?! But that's Palm Springs for you! And it's a major reason I decided to move my lil flower business to gentler climates...but I digress...)

I've seen elopements that range from bare-bones to all-out, depending on the couple's budget, time constraints, and personal preferences. And that includes the decision of whether to have flowers as part of their wedding. Some people MUST have flowers, while others don't see the value in them at all. (The latter are total weirdos, but I might be biased?)

In fact, Flowers have been an integral part of weddings since the beginning of folks getting hitched, dating all the way back to our most ancient civilizations. Throughout history, flowers at weddings have served both aesthetic and practical purposes — not only being used to convey emotions, but also to ward off evil spirits and mask foul odors (showers and deodorant weren't always a thing, surprise!), and to symbolize luck, fertility, and fidelity.

For me, personally, they also symbolize our connectedness — to each other, to the planet, and to the utterly mysterious magic of the Universe. (I wear my woowoo badge with pride. Haters gonna hate.)️

close up of an elopement bouquet with red, pink and burgundy flowers

For Amy and Luke, they felt that "although it was an elopement and just us, we still wanted those special touches to make it personal and feel like a wedding day." I think Amy put it best: "I can’t imagine being a bride and not having a bouquet...and of course they look amazing in the photos! They tied our whole colour scheme together and made us match, I think you need that...especially when you don’t have a bridal party!" (See?! Aesthetic and practical!) Luke also added that flowers are "another special memory to have from the day. Every time we see those flowers or similar, now we’ll think of our day." In fact, Amy's bouquet meant so much to her that she hired an artist to embroider an image of it as a keepsake (pictured below). So sweet!

bride and groom sitting in open top car holding hands. groom is driving and waring red suit bride is looking at groom holding elopement bouquet with red, pink and burgundy flowers
embroided flower bouquet with red, pink and burgundy flowers

My deepest thanks to Amy and Luke for sharing their special day and their kind words with me, and to all the amazing vendors who helped make their wedding possible. 

Photography: @thehendrys (San Francisco-based); Officiant: @bethelnathan; Classic Car Rental: @cvclassiccars; Embroidery: @loops.by.leah_

The Happiest Wedding: Karley + Alex’s Pink Wedding Theme

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Karley and Alex came to me alllll the way from chilly Ontario with their pink wedding theme, by way of Trish at The Walk Down The Aisle. Trish is one of the best wedding planners in the Coachella Valley and high desert, and one of her specialties is intimate, one-of-a-kind elopements. I always love working with Trish, who has a great design aesthetic and eye for detail.

I knew this one was going to be special when on my initial consultation call with Karley she said, “I just want all the happy colors!” Can do! Pinks, oranges, yellows… and then she told me she had a pink wedding dress too! Her sparkley powder pink Teuta Matoshi dress is a work of art unto itself… simply stunning. Once she sent me a picture of the pink wedding dress, I knew I could not only lean hard into pink wedding flowers, but also into decadent, ruffled texture when choosing flowers… think dahlia, zinnia, ranunculus, snapdragon, and alstromeria.

Karley also mentioned that the bougainvillea was in bloom at Casa de Monte Vista, where their private intimate wedding ceremony would be held, and she wanted to incorporate some if possible. A very generous friend in town has huge bougainvillea bushes that she lets me forage from occasionally, and I knew they’d be in full bloom by then, since the wedding would be in November and bougainvillea tends to bloom here from October through February. So we were in luck!

(A quick note on foraging: ask before you cut! You could be cutting from someone’s private property or unknowingly spreading an invasive species!)

I also doubled down on Karley’s bouquet’s ribbon cascade, mixing fabrics and soft blush tones with just a touch of silver to add to the magic. 🪄

close up of pink wedding flowers and engagment ring
bride wearing pink wedding dress standing in front of bougainvillaea at outdoor so cal wedding venue

The small wedding would only be Karley, Alex, and both of their parents, with first looks at the oh-so-pink Trixie Motel (owned by the amazing Trixie Matel, whose reality show of the motel’s renovation is DEFINITELY worth a watch!), followed by (continuing the pink wedding theme) an outdoor wedding ceremony, pink champagne toast, and pink cake cutting just a few blocks away at Casa de Monte Vista in the historic Old Las Palmas neighborhood of Palm Springs.

My job was to deliver Karley’s bridal bouquet and Alex’s boutonnière to the motel for first looks and getting-ready shots with their photographer, Mary Costa, and then head over to prep the ceremony space quickly at Casa de Monte Vista.

Two large floral “meadow pieces” on the ground provided Karley and Alex’s altar space, which their flower-girl mothers also adorned with sprinkles of loose rose and bougainvillea petals as the ceremony started.

After their sweet and tearful ceremony, while the wedding party toasted with pink champagne topped with cotton candy clouds, I repurposed the meadow pieces for a quick photo shoot with the newlyweds in front of a pink Thunderbird they’d rented from Monroe classic car rentals.

(Did I mention EVERYTHING about this wedding was pink?!?!)

Then Karley and Alex snuck away for a private first dance out in the desert (to a song Karley wrote herself for the occasion!) before meeting their parents for dinner at a local restaurant.

bride and groom at small wedding venue standing infront of two palm trees and flower meadows designed with pink wedding flowers
bride and groom standing in front of a pink vintage car with bride holding bridal bouquet and a wedding flower meadow placed on the ground
bride and groom head to head outside in the desert groom with pink flower boutonniere

While pink is absolutely one of my fave colors (second only to orange, don’t hate!), what made this pink wedding elopement special was that Karley and Alex stayed true to their uniqueness, both as a couple AND as individuals, from Alex’s two-toned suit to Karley’s pink wedding dress and Wicked-inspired pink platform heels! It was such a joy getting to know them, and I’ll forever remember their beautiful pink love story and the honor of being a small part of it. 💕

See below for vendor team tags and more of Mary Costa’s breathtaking photos of the day! You can go here to read the full feature in Green Wedding Shoes’ Valentine’s Day issue!

Vendor team Instas: Venues @trixiemotel & @casademontevista; Planner @thewalkdowntheaisle; Photography @marycostaphoto; Dress @teutamatoshi; Car Rental @monroe.ps; Cake @overtherainbowdesserts; HMU @peonyblushmakeup; Hairpiece @ohhappybrides; Shoes @aldoshoes

Prism Floral Design specializes in wedding flowers for small weddings and elopements in the venice beach/Los Angeles area. You can visit our testimonial page here or if you’re ready to get the ball rolling, contact Karin below.

Lush texture meets simple elegance: The blooms of H+K’s romantic small wedding

Holly and Karl came to me via the lovely planners at Thread Events, with whom I’d worked on previous small weddings. They already had a very specific vision in mind for their wedding, including a detailed inspo deck; so my job was to thoroughly understand what the client wanted and work to achieve it, rather than reinvent the wheel with a brand new proposed design of my own.

They wanted organic and lush, texture and movement, with a hidden-garden-meets-Mediterranean-villa romantic vibe. I was pumped, because I don’t often get asked to do wilder, looser, more natural garden-like designs! Yay!! And I knew the gorgeous Casa Cody venue would be a perfect backdrop.

fountain in the garden at casa cody wedding venue in southern california

The color palette was earthy creams and crisp white against airy greens and the lightest of citrusy orange and butter yellow.

Holly had very specific types of flowers on her wishlist: tulips, Veronica, delphinium - with a single “star bloom” for her bouquet and white Icelandic poppies.

Aside from being extremely fickle for florists (half the bunch never opens, while the other half opens and dies within 48 hours, fantastic!), Icelandic poppies are one of those unique and sought-after blooms that shows up unannounced and leaves just as abruptly. Its season is short and unpredictable.

As I tell all my clients, even if a flower is technically “in season” for your wedding, there’s no guarantee I’ll be able to get it. There’s so much about the floral supply chain that is outside of our control…ultimately we’re talking about Mother Nature here, and she will NOT be bossed around!

So although I would absolutely request white Icelandic poppies on my wholesale order, we needed to have some backups in mind in case they didn’t come through.

Since I was booked far in advance of the big day, we waited until about 8 weeks prior to the wedding to have a mockup, with the hope that the majority of the types of flowers used in the mockup would still be available on the day-of.

However, I also included some reliable and widely available blooms from her color palette, so there would be some sure-bets included and they could get as close to envisioning their actual wedding flowers as possible.

The Flower Mock-Up

Holly joined me at my home for the flower mockup, and the planner joined by video. I had her taper and tealight candles there, as well as a few assorted clear glass and custom ceramic bud vases, and a sample flower centerpiece.

Holly’s feedback was fantastic and very detailed, and we were able to fine-tune the designs as well as the types of flowers selection (with the understanding that remaining flexible and open to substitutions if/when needed is key, of course!).

She wanted fewer blooms and more wild, textured greens in the arrangements, which I was totally down for! (We florists love any opportunity to just have fun and be free with our designs! Yes, please and thank you!)

She also said she wanted to make a trip to the downtown LA flower market a month or so before the wedding, to see if there were any unique blooms that caught her eye, I loved the idea of collaborating this closely with my client!

Holly texted me from the market and sent some pictures, but ultimately there was nothing earth-shatteringly different from the list of blooms we’d already settled on.

So I placed my “pre-book” order with my wholesaler about 3 weeks before the wedding date, as usual, and waited, hoping that those Icelandic poppies would come through.

I also decided that I would plan my own trip to the DTLA market 3 days prior to the wedding, just in case my wholesaler couldn’t get the poppies, or something new was blooming that Holly would like.

Shopping at the DTLA flower market

At the market that morning, I grabbed handfuls of extra this-and-that, just in case. (I always allow myself a little overage in my budget, even knowing that it might not get used…because it’s always better to have a little too much than not enough, amiright?!)

And my wholesale rep told me those Icelandic poppies had come in for Holly’s bouquet—there was just one catch: they were assorted colors instead of all-white, as promised.

As I was hunting frantically for extra poppies, I spied something that literally made me stop in my tracks and gasp audibly and dramatically (picture hand over open mouth and eyes wide, haha): a small bucket of white “Ocean Pearls” Agrostemma.

These were brand new on the flower scene and I’d admired them recently in a few florists’ posts, but I hadn’t seen them at the market yet and was dying to use them.

More importantly, I knew from learning about Holly’s style and floral preferences that she would absolutely LOVE them.

So I quickly grabbed the three best and freshest bunches.

The Bridal Bouquet - ta daa

As I suspected, the Icelandic poppies did what they often do…many of them refused to open over the course of the next 48 hours, even though I tried all the florist tricks and opened some by hand (which I don’t love doing because they never look as good that way, imho, but I digress!).

And because they had delivered them in the wrong color, only a few of the ones that opened were white - definitely not enough to make an entire bridal bouquet.

I had to break the news to Holly.

So I texted her the pictures of her remaining bouquet options - white tulips, white Veronica, cream butterfly Ranunculus, and the Agrostemma.

She was on board with the Agrostemma, yayyyy, and I assured her they were even more amazing in person (absolute truth!).

Because Agrostemma is one of those continuously blooming varieties, with multiple blooms per stem that open anew as older blooms fade, I ended up having plenty for the bouquet and enough leftovers to pop into the ceremony pieces, too!

Below are a couple of gorgeous shots of Holly’s bouquet (courtesy of the amazing Matthew David Studio).

She absolutely LOVED it, and didn’t let go of it for most of the night.

If you ever have the chance to get your hands on some Agrostemma, treat yoself! Its unique honeysuckle-like bloom, long stems, graceful movement, longevity, and ability to stand up to warm and dry conditions (even out of water!) make it an absolute winner and not always an obvious type of flowers for weddings.

P.S. It also comes in a soft blush and a light fuchsia!

agrostemma bridal bouquet  resting on a wooden table tied with a white silk ribbon
types of flowers for a white wedding bouquet the agrostemma

Vendor team Instas: Venue @casacody; Planner @threadevents; Photography @matthewdavidstudio; Rentals @sigpartyrentals @planksandpatina; Catering + Bar @whoanellycaters; DJ + Horns @dartcollective

Prism Floral Design is an experienced wedding florist located in venice beach, California. Karin specializes in small weddings and elopements.

Learn more about Prism Floral Design HERE or if you’re ready to talk types of flowers for your small wedding, contact Karin below.